Happy Anal Pleasure Month in August! There's no better occasion to explore or enjoy it if you haven't yet. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but with some essential tips, you can give it your best shot and unlock a world of thrilling sensations.
Remember, anal play isn't just for fun; it can also be fantastic for individuals with a prostate! It might even lead to discovering the art of multiple orgasms and experiencing pleasure beyond the conventional penile stimulation.
Here are some suggestions to enhance the experience and make it wetter & better!
1.Don't Forget About Lube!
It's crucial to emphasize this: unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't produce its own natural lubrication. Due to the delicate and thin anal lining, it's more prone to tearing. To ensure a smooth and pleasurable experience, opt for a gel-like water-based lube for added cushion, or try a long-lasting silicone lube. Alternatively, a creamy hybrid lube offers a balance between longevity and easy cleanup.
2.Take Your Time to Warm Up
Romancing the ass is essential. Avoid rushing into anything. While some may have seen scenes in adult films featuring sudden anal encounters, that approach is usually best suited for those with ample experience. For most of us, it's vital to take our time and gradually work up to larger toys or objects. Prioritize spending time on the anal opening with gentle circular motions and massages before proceeding further.
3.Listen to Your Body
If you experience any discomfort or pain, STOP immediately. It's crucial to dispel the misconception that anal play should be painful. That's not true at all! Distinguish between the discomfort of something new and the genuine pain that requires immediate cessation. Pay close attention to your body. Maybe you just need more lube, or the current position isn't ideal, or the toy you're using is slightly too big, and you may need to switch to a smaller size.
4.Take It Slowly and Gently
The anus is incredibly sensitive with numerous nerve endings, making it acutely aware of any stimulation. Especially when you're just starting, proceed very slowly. If you think you're going slow, slow down even more.
While enjoying a drink or two might not be an issue, if you find that alcohol impairs your ability to articulate, communicate, and gauge sensations accurately, it's better to avoid it. Being under the influence can lead to moving too fast, possibly resulting in injury.
6.Mind the Base, Leave No Trace
When incorporating toys like plugs or dildos, ensure they have a secure base. It's crucial to avoid any mishaps where something might get lost inside. Dealing with such an issue may lead to discomfort and even a trip to the ER. Be wise in your choices when it comes to what you insert into your body. And remember, more lube is always better, so don't hesitate to add more if needed, especially if you're with a partner.
7.Embrace Relaxation Techniques
Take deep breaths to help you relax and center yourself. Breathing intentionally enhances your sensitivity and pleasure during the experience.
8.Prioritize Safe Practices
Safer sex is paramount! For added protection, the penetrator can use an external condom, or the person being penetrated can opt for an internal condom (with the inner ring removed) to cover more skin and ensure a safer experience.
9.Enjoy the Journey!
Remember to have fun and savor the experience. Engaging in any activity should be enjoyable, and the same applies to Anal August! Happy explorations!