Many people face a situation where the frequency of their sexual activities, especially with long-term partners, inevitably decreases over time.
So how can you rekindle the flame of love? Today, I will briefly recommend the following 5 methods.
Regardless of gender, consider this relationship as the most important one in your life
For a relationship to last, it needs to be seen as the most cherished and significant bond in your life. Create intimate moments and enjoy quality time together to nurture the growth of your relationship. Let your partner know how important they are to you.
Remind your partner of their specialness
Over time, it's easy to take each other's presence for granted. We stop appreciating our partners and fail to acknowledge their efforts for us. Other people or things start taking priority. Partners are often placed last, assuming they will be happy to wait or accept being prioritized behind others.
Remember how you treated your partner in the early stages of dating. Make your partner feel special, just as you did when you first started going out.
Take intimacy beyond the bedroom
Excitement comes from innovation, while monotony kills passion in a marital relationship. Variety is the spice of life. Take your playground outside the bedroom. Plan a weekend getaway, leave the comfort of home, and find a place where you can both relax and give yourselves to each other without inhibitions.
Don't stop kissing
Some couples forget to kiss each other in a stable relationship. If kissing ceases in a relationship, passion fades away. With no kisses, the connection breaks. Instead of growing closer, you create distance.
When we become too comfortable in a relationship, we allow laziness to creep in, losing the drive to entice our partners. We feel there's no need to seduce them anymore. Keep seducing your partner, no matter how long you've been together.
The power of kissing is immense. Kissing is not just great foreplay; it brings immense pleasure on its own and deepens the intimacy in a relationship. Explore how you can kiss your partner in the most sensuous ways imaginable.
Of course, don't forget the power of holding hands.
Reserve personal space for each other
No matter how much you enjoy each other's company, it is important to have your own personal space. Spending time alone is not only about recharging yourself but also about reconnecting with who you are as an individual. It allows you to continue developing your interests and hobbies, bringing a fresh perspective back to your partner. Fill your life and yourself with joy.
Discover the unknown within yourself, giving your partner the opportunity to get to know the new sides of you. Do things that nourish your soul.
Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe often interprets the dynamics of love, relationships, and sexuality between men and women from a male perspective in his works. In one of his passages, he writes:
"In matters of sexuality, men are completely honest and devoid of pretense. From a female perspective, that bold and assertive aspect may seem intimidating or even frightening. However, in reality, it is constantly observing its surroundings and quickly becomes timid at the slightest disturbance. Deep down, it is quite vulnerable."