If you are a BDSM beginner, when you purchase a beginner's kit, it often comes with an irresistible feather.
Today, we are not going to talk about how to play with a feather playfully. Instead, we want to share with you the art of tickling during flirting or foreplay in sexual intimacy.
Some people may have a fear of being tickled. When someone tickles them, they instinctively try to avoid it while saying "no" but wearing a smile on their face. In the realm of intimacy, it's indeed about touching the taboo areas of the body, creating contrast, ups, and downs, and a sense of excitement.
In my opinion, tickling techniques are undoubtedly a great way to add some excitement to the intimacy. So, the question is, how can we make it enjoyable? Today, let me explain the process of tickling techniques to you.
Creating an atmosphere
Tickling can create a sense of tension in the body, to some extent, it can be considered as a physiological stress response. Therefore, it's important to create a good atmosphere for your partner.
You can light scented candles in the bedroom, play some soft romantic music, or set up romantic lighting effects. The goal is to create a relaxed and joyful atmosphere, allowing your partner to feel at ease and free from tension, entering a more peaceful state.
However, not everyone may respond to these tactics. It's important to communicate with your partner beforehand. If your partner prefers a more direct and playful approach, without the need for elaborate preparations, well, then go ahead and start tickling!
Remember, the most crucial aspect is to ensure both you and your partner are comfortable and enjoying the experience. So, embrace the fun and pleasure that tickling can bring, while respecting each other's boundaries and desires.
Enhancing Body Sensitivity
For naturally sensitive individuals, tickling can bring them to their knees. However, when it comes to tickling play, the core pursuit is the sensation of "itchiness." If your body is not very sensitive and you have a high tolerance for itchiness, it may not be as enjoyable.
Therefore, it's important to learn how to enhance your body's sensitivity before starting the game.
One recommendation is to take a hot bath beforehand. It can help relax your muscles and increase blood flow, making your body more receptive to stimulation. Additionally, gentle massages or light tapping from your partner can also be effective in enhancing body sensitivity.
By preparing your body in these ways, you can heighten the ticklish sensations and fully enjoy the tickling play. However, always communicate with your partner and respect each other's boundaries to ensure a pleasurable and comfortable experience.
Getting Restrained
Whether you're the one tickling or being tickled, if you want to experience the ultimate pleasure, bondage can bring a great sense of stimulation and fun.
The person being restrained, already feel the intense tickling sensations that come with heightened sensitivity. Being unable to escape intensifies the psychological feelings of "shame" and "helplessness." However, those who have tried it know that the pleasure is also multiplied.
Amidst the screams and involuntary struggles, it becomes irresistible to stop.
Let the Game Begin
When it's time to truly start the game, there are many ways to make your partner ticklish.
You can use your hands to touch those areas of your body that are particularly sensitive to tickling, such as the armpits, soles of the feet, or waist.
You can hold their ankle with one hand and gently stroke the sole of their foot with your fingertips.
While exploring their body, you might even discover unique sensitive spots, which can be quite a delightful surprise.
You can also use the gentle tool I mentioned earlier: feathers. The sensation of being tickled with a feather, where they can't scratch or escape, is truly exhilarating.
You can also use your warm tongue to lick their sensitive areas.
During the game, the frequency, intensity, and duration of your tickling attacks are up to you. As you continue to tickle relentlessly, your partner may start laughing and eventually cry out, completely unable to hold back. But that's also when the pleasure reaches its peak.
Comforting
After the game is over, it's essential to provide comfort, similar to aftercare in intimate moments.
Being the one who was tickled, they have experienced both physical and psychological "torture," although pleasurable, it can leave them feeling a sense of vulnerability and helplessness.
At this point, hold them tightly! Shower them with kisses, caress their hands, and don't hesitate to express gentle words of affection.
If the tickled person was restrained during the play, you can also give them a soothing massage to help them relax and enjoy the moment.